how our love works

i really wonder why people suddenly change after they get what they wanted..

one day they are sweet, the next day they are not.
one day they are here, the next day they are gone.
one day you are important to them, the next day you are worthless.
one day they say they love you, the next day they say who are you.

that is how ironic things and people can be. pretty shits, pretty lies but it is your choice. you choose to get hurt, when you choose to be in LOVE.

at some point, i've learned that no matter how hard you play by the rules, make all the right moves and try to be ms. perfect in everyway. you dont always get the results you hoped for..i've realized, life does'nt always play out the way you wished it would..

What is a pseudo relationship?

And why does it hurt?

- it's when you don't know where you stand in a person's life; it's when you're hanging in dead air and knowing you can be thrown off anytime. it's when you're like more than friends but not really, and it's like you've lovers when it's really otherwise.

damn! sometimes you would want to wish to have never met the person at all...but at the back of your mind, you're still thankful you have...

L I T T L E Things

As you might know, the head of a company survived 9/11 because his son started kindergarten.

Another fellow was alive because it was His turn to bring donuts.

One woman was late because her Alarm clock didn't go off in time.

One was late because of being stuck on the NJ Turnpike Because of an auto accident.

One of them Missed his bus.

One spilled food on her clothes and had to take Time to change.

One's Car wouldn't start.

One went back to Answer the telephone.

One had a Child that dawdled And didn't get ready as soon as he should have.

One couldn't Get a taxi.

The one that struck me was the man Who put on a new pair of shoes that morning, Took the various means to get to work But before he got there, he developed a blister on his foot.

He stopped at a drugstore to buy a Band-Aid. That is why he is alive today.

Now when I am Stuck in traffic, Turn back to answer a ringing telephone... All the little things that annoy me. I think to myself, This is exactly where God wants me to be At this very moment..

Next time your morning seems to be Going wrong, The children are slow getting dressed, You can't seem to find the door keys, You hit every traffic light, Don't get mad or frustrated it maybe just that

God is at work watching over you.

May God continue to bless you With all those annoying little things
And may you remember their possible purpose.

buhay pag-ibig

Matagal tagal din ako hinde naka pag post ng entry dito...

Ngayon, i'am feeling sad...

Buhay pag-ibig? siguro..masarap pero masakit magmahal. Marami ako kakilala na ganyan ang problema. PAG-IBIG. Madalas kasi sa umpisa lang masaya. Sa umpisa halos walang sawang magka usap, magkatext, magkasama. Pero habang tumatagal nawawala na ang init ng pag-ibig.

Nagmahal din ako noon..tulad nang buhay pag-ibig nawala din pa unti-unti hanggang sa tuluyan na naglaho na parang bula. hays...masakit talaga minsan tanggapin kung bakit ganun ang kinahinatnan. Nag-iisip ka tuloy anu ba kulang sa akin? may nagawa ba akong mali? halos ibigay ko sa kanyan lahat..nasa kanya lang ang buong attention ko..pero iniwan pa rin ako..nanlumo ako..umiyak bawat gabi na naiisip mo siya pero wala ako magawa kasi hanggang doon na lang talaga. :(

Kaya ngayon, parang natakot ako magmahal ulit at baka ganun naman ang mangyari..minsan umaabot ako sa punto na halos kasuklaman ko lahat ng mga lalaki. Pero whatever there reason choice nila yun eh. Mahirap mag pilit kung ayaw. all you have to do is to let go and move on. not just move on but move forward. It's definitely time to move on when you do not feel accepted or appreciated.

I'm not gonna hold too long to what's never meant..sometines i need to set things free..before it totally kills me..

I had realized that love is not enough to make a relationship work. We need trust, respect, time, effort and total commitment. If a person doesn't show respect, doesn't earn your trust and cannot keep a promise. then no matter how many times they say "iloveyou" those words will be empty. take time to listen to what they don't say. take time to look at what they dont show because there are secret hidden beneath their words. So do not let passion but wisdom decide for you. Love wisely because its never easy to love and get hurt...

Make my day special..part 2

May 21- Extended ang kaarawan ko...

Dahil pag uwi sa bahay namin kagabi...nagulat ako at andun ang ilang kamag-anak namin, inivite pala sila nang mommy ko dahil may kaunting salo-salo sa bahay. Para sa pagdiriwang nang aking kaarawan. dahil nung mismong kaarawan ko ay nakalimutan nila kaya ako nagtampo. pero kinabukasan bumawi din sila :) sabay kanta nang "happy birthday"

Kaunting salo-salo: Palabok, Manok, Puto, Cake at Coke.

Simple lamang yan pero malaki ang halaga sa akin ang pag aalala sa kaarawan ko kahit walang handa basta hinde lang nila makalimutan.

Kya my Family make my most special day!

Make my day special :)

Make my day special..yan ang aking status message sa aking Yahoo Messenger dahil kahapon ay:

May 20- kahapon ay aking kaarawan. Maaga ako gumising dahil balak ko dumaan sa simbahan para magpasalamat sa puong my kapal sa mga biyayang dumarating sa buhay ko at sa ika-30 kaarawan ko. Pagdating ko sa Dagupan Catheral ay mayroon palang misa na idinadaos dun. Maswerte ako at naabutan ko ang misa nang 7:30am. At natapos eto nang 8:00am. Sakto na oras para pumasok na ako sa aking trabaho.

Pagdating ko sa opisina malugud ako binati nang mga ka opisina ko at naabasa ko sa aking lamesa ang note na to:

At sa pag log in ko sa Yahoo Messenger ko ay sunod sunod na bumati saken sila ay sina:

Sir Jun Avelino nang DTI

Normita Cabatbat nang batch’97

Norman Policaripo nang Eurolink

Bryan Nisperos co-parents

Sui Valdez nang Eurolink

Maricel Erto nang batch’97

Mabel blanco aking kaibigan

Lailyn Cendaña bestfriend ko

Jefford Secondes nang Eurolink

Ryan Jay Cuña- pinsan ko from Guam

Gilbert Perez nang batch’97

Lerwin Gutierrez aking kaibigan from Dubai

Norman Biala- kaibigan ko from LA

At sa mga bumati sa telepono:

Auntie Carmen- tita ko

Cherry- pinsan ko

Ricahrd – pinsan ko

Olinz- kaibigan ko

Diwata- co-parents ko

Jun- taga DTI

At sa mga bumati sa Text:

ate lala, ate edna, bryan, jasmin, tiffany, cherry, maclong, loi, darell, richard, dexie, jason at si liezyl.

At sa bumati sa Friendster and multiply account ko:

cherry

sarah

normita

vanessa

diana

gilbert

tita emma

rusela

marilaine

ogie

sui

pristine

Sa lahat nang bumati sa anung mang paraan MARAMING SALAMAT PO sa pag aalala nang aking kaarawan.

Nakakalungkot lang kasi sa kabila nang pag bati sa akin nang mga kamang-anak ko at mga kaibigan, e my kulang pa rin…nakalimutan mismo sa aming tahanan nang akng pamilya ang aking kaarawan. Hanggang sa aking pag uwi wala pa rin nakaalala malungkot ako umuwi nang bahay. Kung hinde ko pa binanggit sa anak ko kung anong araw ngayon hinde pa nila maalala..tska lamang ako binati...

Hays..nakakalungkot pero masaya na rin kahit papano andiyan ang aking mga kaibigan at mga kamang-anak na nagmamahal sa akin at mahal ko rin sila! and they make my day SPECIAL :)

DaBarkads

Taking a road of life without a friend is incomplete…

And a real friendship isn’t affected by social status, distance or even time, with a real friend, you can pick up a relationship where you left it. No matter how far away you’ve been, or how long it’s been since you were together. Real friendship isn’t tarnished by money or lock of it, nor it is enchanced by prestige and success. A real friend will always believe in you, always expect the best of you, and always stand his ground in defending you.

Meet my friends:

Richard Jordan Cuña- I called him rickz or chad. Beside for being my friend, he is also my cousin (1^st cousin) He is in 3^rd year college taking up ECE. A playboy one! He always have a “flavor of the month” girlfriend. Hahaha! He loves his iphone, dota games and diablo games and most of all he loves to drink and get drunk hahaha! He is very hyper! and wants thing to be done quickly (apurado) hehehe. “shat na” hehehe.

Jacky Ang- “the boss” at his early age he manage to take there family business well. The bossing of the group, who always pay the bills in the bar hehehe. He also love to drink all night long, he love his expedition, he love his rav4. “The more the merrier” is his motto with it comes to girls hahaha! Number 1 playboy. He manage all his girlfriends well without knowing how many of them hahaha! Time management is at his hand. But he is idealistic and need to believe in love. Jacky says “mahal ko na siya” hahaha!

Rosalinda Campued- also known as olinz. But I called her sweetie. I met her through Richard. She’s nice and fun to be with and I enjoyed her company. She loves romy..love to change her number. The “globe capturer” she change her cellphone number all the time. Everytime you’ll received an sms and not at your contact you’ll say it again…”si olinz naman! new number again? Hays, balak mo ba ubusin number nang globe?” hehehe.

These are my friends…we love to hang out together. Sometimes at the bar or jacky’s place and have some sugpo! And a lot of seafoods. Knowing that jacky own a hatchery here. But most of the time at Gloria jeans coffee, chit-chat together, chillin and smoking hehehe. :D

Thanks guys for sharing a bit of your time for the friendship you’ve shown to me. I may haven’t done enough to make you feel that I value you but there’s really few words I will say “thank you guys” whatever it is…:)

Love Fades

I guess that love does fade...that sometimes the heart does get tired of longing, of hoping..that sometimes you just have to accept the fact that sometimes can never be and that you should be contented with things as they are...

Leaving is a choice...staying is a choice..but you can never really ask someone to be yours or to stay...

It's a choice they have to make for themselves and sometimes no matter how much you beg someone to stay or how hard you try to make someone to be yours, you really have no control over which they will choose... :(

Preventing kids from smoking

Guys i want share this article that I've read and it is worth reading it...


DESPITE serious government warnings against smoking, teenagers as young as 15 want to puff a cigarette either out of curiosity, influenced by peers and from household members.

Parents still have the biggest impact on their children’s decision whether to smoke especially in urban areas. It is common for parents in slum areas to instruct their children to buy cigarettes and requesting them to light it too.

The best way to prevent a youngster from taking up smoking is to have parents who don’t smoke. Better act now before it’s too late.

Be a role model

If you don’t smoke, that sets a strong example for your children. Research shows that children of parents who smoke are more likely to smoke themselves.

Make your house a smoke-free zone

If you are a smoker or have friends or relatives who smoke, avoid exposing your children to smoke. Young children who are exposed to secondhand smoke are at a higher risk of developing asthma, ear infections and cavities. Infants are at a higher risk of SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome).

Keep trying to quit

If you are a smoker who’s tried to quit, you’re not alone. Seventy percent (70%) of smokers report wanting to quit, but only about five percent of those who try are successful in the long term. Try to quit for your health and for the health of your children.

Don’t smoke around your children

If you make your house a smoke-free zone, making your car a smoke-free zone will protect your passengers, including your children, from the harms of secondhand smoke.

Tell them about the health risks in smoking

This is for both adults and kids. Smoking will impact their ability to play sports successfully and may have potentially long-term negative effects on their good health and their appearance. In addition to the way it smells, smoking causes premature facial aging and stained teeth.

Know your children’s friends

Peer pressure is a powerful factor in children choosing to smoke, drink alcohol and take drugs. Find out if they have friends who smoke. Encourage them to be role models for their siblings and friends by making informed choices not to smoke and set an example with their peers that could set a trend.

Teach children that it is okay to go against the group when their health and safety is at risk. In fact, if they have taken a stand, based on an informed position, it is likely that their friends will respect them for it and follow suit.

Listen to your children

When parents create an atmosphere in their home that encourages discussion and debate about controversial topics that all teens confront and must learn to deal with, empowering your child with the facts will help them stay smoke-free. Start the dialogue about tobacco at an early age (5 and 6) and continue to provide them with age-appropriate information on smoking as they grow older.

If they start to smoke, encourage them to quit

By quitting, people can add years to their lives. Quitting is a life-saving decision that can impact the lives of everyone you love. It isn’t easy, but every quit attempt should be considered a success.


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One of my friend's eldest child start smoking at early age as 13. And now she doesn't know how to stop him because even herself don't know how to quit it. As a parents we must be a good example to our children. It's is important to teach our children about the danger of smoking. The bottom line is that our children need our help to avoid smoking or to quit if they have started. Parents really can make a difference!

Best Things

Fun...fun...fun! This is the most pleasing part of our world today. Much of this come from things we really wanted- although they're not considered necessities. Laptop, cellphone, ipod, camcorder, automobile, signature shoes, elegant dresses, expensive jewerly and material things take up most of our interest. We don't see some of God's gift to us. It seems abstract nouns lost their worth.

Many people think that money is EVERYTHING. Money is what makes their world go round. They don't realize how stupid they've become because of money. They don't recognize that the "M-word" makes them foolish people by making it their "GOD". I personally admire people who, despite their authority, power and wealth, move to have "low profile" lives.

As a ordinary employee, I wanted to leam most of the answer to my question in life. I want to believe that the things in life come at a cheap price. People around us are free of charge when we seek where God's blessing are. They are gift -that is, no monetary amount of whatever currency can match their value. Yet, we don't recognize their value; unless God has taken them from us. He would say, "Since you don't appreciate a simple gift, then you will have none at all.

A while ago i was chatting with my eldest sister in Italy, And we are talking about how expensive to live there. The bills, gas, food, etc. She said she wants to enjoy life without thinking of any kind that money matters. I told her to pray for the best things in life. But i do realize, the best things can't always be "things." They may come in a form of a family, friend, a relative, or a loved one. I think that is way God took him from me. As a quote may utter, "You'll never realize the value of someone or something until you lose them."

the days of holy week

Holy Week is the last week of Lent, the week immediately preceding Easter or Resurrection Sunday. And most of us people spent there holyweek as "bakasyon grande" Ang ilan sa atin umuuwi nang kani kanilang probinsya ang ilan naman nagplano nang mga outing kasama pamilya o barkada nila.

Tulad namin, bago dumating ang mahal na araw kaming magpipinsan ay nag plano mag punta sa pagudgud para makapamasyal dun. kaya lang bigla naman nanganak ung isang pinsan namin so, nag decide kami na huwag na lang lumayo kasi wala siya makakasama.
Kaya ang bagsak namin ay sa San Fabian beach, malapit lang mula sa aming hometown. Ang mga bata walang humpay na naligo sa dagat mula umaga na dumating kame hanggang hapon. kaya ayun ang resulta nila nognog hehehe ;)) ilan lang sa aming mga adults ang hinde naligo sa dagat takot mangitim hahaha!
Kinabukasan naman sa baguio ang aming destinasyon. bago kame namasyal sa baguio naisipin namin dumadaan sa catheral. sa dami nang tao hinde na kame nakapasok sa loob nang simbahan sa labas na lang kami nakinig nang sermon ni father. ang salita? ILOKANO hinde ko maintindihan kaya after nang mass tinanong ko nanay ko kung anu sermon ni father. ang sermon pala ay tungkol sa mga magulang na pabaya sa anak at sa mga anak na pasaway sa mga magulang. naalala ko tuloy nung ako'y bata pa.(teenager) hehehe. pasaway ayaw makinig sa magulang. kaya nang ako'y naging magulang naintindihan ko na sila hehehe. hangad lang naman nang mga magulang magandang kinabukasan sa mga anak eh.

kaya yung mga pasaway na anak dyan, always listen too your parents for your own good...
And lastly, don't forget the true meaning of "holyweek" the time to commemorate and enact the suffering (Passion) and death of Jesus through various observances and services of worship.

long weekend :)

hello :)

Mahabang haba bakasyon eto dahil sa pag announced ni madam gloria arroyo nang holiday. syempre inusog ang araw nang kagitingan imbes na april 9 sa april 6 na lang. dahil nataon natapat sa holy thursday. bongga di ba! hahaha!

april 4- sa manila kame para dumalo sa binyag nang baby nang pinsan ko..pero kinabukasan pa yun. maaga lang kame para makapamasyal pa nang mall at syempre shopping nag konti kasi naman 3day sale ngayon sa moa hahaha! lunch kame sa terriyakiboy and dinner sa emerald garden. nakakapagod na sabado pero masaya naman.

april 5- the big day of ashley! happy christening!!! pagdating sa simbahan nagulat ako sa pag dating ni ms. giselle sanchez kasama asawa at anak niya. amazed ako sa kutis na tanglay niya ang kinis at kalog siya kung anu siya sa t.v ganun din siya sa personal. kahit buntis walang kiming nang post sa camera sa mga nang papa picture sa kanya kasama na ko dun ;)) hehehe.

Maaga natapos ang event kaya may oras pa kame para mag last minute shopping hahaha! kya go kame agad nang megamall kaya lang walang sale dun kainis. umabot kame nang 6pm sa mall bago bumalik nag condo sa valencia hills para mag mag impake at umuwi na nang pangasinan.

april 6- monday syempre holiday. naisipan namen nang pinsan ko na si richard na mag tambay sa quattro grill dahil wala magawa sa bahay. 2pm nasa quattro kme tapos sumunod sila aiza, natz and abet nang quattro. ayun bonding kame kwentuhan. tapos biglang nag aya tong si aiza nang baguio. kaya ayun bounce kami agad nang baguio nang walang ka plano plano. naka shortpants nga lang ako at nilamig ako. kumain lang kame nag pizza sa baguio tapos ayun bumama na ulit.

Kakapapagod na long weekend pero masaya!!! :)